Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole.
Last August our family experienced another change in our lives–our youngest went off to college, leaving Hubby and me with an empty nest.
By day, our house is filled with noise and chaos because I own and operate a family childcare program.
Once that last Little Darling leaves for the day, and dinner is over, I sit in my comfy chair in the living room to pick up where I left off with my current WIP (work-in-progress). With only Hubby and me at home, I’ve noticed something very annoying…the ticking clock hanging on the living room wall.
Holy cats, that thing is loud!
When our boys are home, and the Xbox is being played, then the ticking is drowned out by whatever gaming chatter.
Then I realized something else…I missed having someone to care for. Hubby doesn’t count because he’s quite self-sufficient, and my Little Darlings don’t count because they leave before dinner.
I needed someone or something to take care of, so I started talking to Hubby about a dog.
We had a beautiful yellow Lab about 14 years ago named Samantha Jane. Due to our son’s allergies at the time, and Samantha’s size with my Little Darlings, she wasn’t the best fit for our family. She ended up moving to a farm to live with a couple who had another dog and wanted a playmate for her.
Anyway, Hubby wasn’t too excited about the dog thing and suggested we wait until spring.
For her birthday, my mom adopted a sweet little chihuahua mix dog named Penelope, who may be older than the 3 years the shelter claimed. This little sweetheart burrowed herself into my heart, especially after I became Penny’s official dogsitter when my mom was hospitalized two different times for heart issues. I kept telling Mom I was going to dognap Penny for good.
In fact Hubby had said, “If only we could find a dog like Penny…”
I had been praying and asking God to provide us with the right pooch at the right time.
Well, in January, my mom had another heart issue. Due to some concerns afterward, Penny came to live with us full-time.
So as Carolyn mentioned on Monday when she took over my blog–I’m a new puppy mama. Isn’t Penny just the sweetest thing?
Caring for a dog is like caring for kids, except dogs can’t speak, and kids shouldn’t be doing their business outside. Penny demands attention like a kid and insists on getting up in the middle of the night for a potty break.
I’m remembering those early years with my kids. Unfortunately my body has aged 20 years, so I’m more tired now, but we love Penny so much and wouldn’t give her up for anything.
Your Turn: Do you have any pets? What’s your favorite part about being a pet owner? What advice do you have to share with this new puppy mama?
She is a pretty Penny! It’s so cool the way God brings dogs into our lives.:)
You could try limiting her water after a certain hour in the evening to see if that helps, but you’ve probably already tried that. It may be habit especially if she was able to “go at will” in the shelter or she may just be lonely.
I have had many pets. We started with a dog but I had better luck with cats. They are very loving and with a litter box you don’t have to take them outside in the middle of the night. Yes, you have to scoop the box unless you get an automatic one. I love my animals and i know I would not be happy without them. Right now I have one 19 year old cat who is blind due to cataracts and 5 fish. A house without a pet is not a home.
Well, you could have a cat that sits on your chest and purrs at 4 o’clock in the morning…great post, Lisa!